If everything goes according to plan (and you haven't lost the desire to live in the process), you can make sure the
trans date succeeds. Expectations are high. This is exciting for both sides, but it is also nerve-racking and may be difficult to know how to behave. It's not uncommon for stress to overwhelm you and affect your performance. People seldom relax when they are full of expectation and it is difficult to do their best.That said, the more you want your
transgender date to go as smoothly as you expect, the more likely it will go the other way.
